What to consider with Odd behavior. Could it be Alzheimer’s or other dementia?

Written By Judy King

When you see odd behavior consider these things: 

When your LOWD is exhibiting a behavior, you haven’t seen before there could be outside issues driving the issue: 

  • Could it be a UTI? Common in both sexes especially in our later years – over 50 

  • Are they dehydrated? Pinch (gently of course) a small amount of skin on the top of their hand. If properly hydrated it should spring back into place. If it “sticks” together, that is a sign of dehydration. Offer some liquid. If they refuse to drink, suggest popsicles or water laden fruit. 

  • Is it the current environment? Is there too much stimulation in the space? Is there too much for them to think about? Is it loud? Crowded? To dark? 

  • Check for comfort. Are they looking for a bathroom? Check if they are hot or cold (loss of sense of temperatures) Are they hungry? Is their stomach upset? 

  • Is it an action they did as a kid? When a youth did, they use bathroom outside? Did they play in the dirt? (Digging in flower garden) Did they walk barefoot (taking shoes off)  

  • What kind of work did they do? If they wander at night, ask yourself if they worked night shift of a type of security job. 

  • If a Housewife. Does she like to organize things? Save a basket of laundry (towels) for her to fold. Save a drawer in the kitchen that is for her to reorganize when she feels the need. 

If the behavior is like Signs of Depression, (For either of you!) like sleeping a lot, not eating, or drinking. Insist on treatment!  

 Depression, if not treated, can lead to a low quality of life, for both of you.  

 

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Judy King

Welcome to Arms of Grace Respite Care, llc. My name is Judy, and I am deeply passionate about supporting care partners who walk the challenging yet rewarding path of caring for someone living with Alzheimer’s or other dementia. With over 16 years as a business owner and a lifetime of varied experiences, I’ve cultivated a heart-centered approach to care that emphasizes compassion, understanding, and empowerment.

My journey has been shaped by firsthand experience with conditions such as Parkinson’s, primary progressive multiple sclerosis, spinal cord injury, Alzheimer’s, and common geriatric issues.

To better serve care partners, I pursued CNA training and furthered my education through Teepa Snow’s Positive Approach to Care, which provides invaluable insights into brain changes in those living with Alzheimer’s. I remain committed to staying informed, reading current research on Alzheimer’s disease weekly, and volunteering at an assisted living community I previously worked at. I provide a Chair exercise program that promotes Neuroplasticity. It is named Ageless Grace(timeless fitness for the body and brain).

Beyond my professional life, I am a wife, mother, grandmother, and someone who finds joy in the outdoors, crafting, and helping others. I am here to guide you with compassion and practical tools to navigate the complexities of caregiving. Together, we can ensure that you and your loved one feel supported every step of the way.

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